Pick-Up Stories and Advice

Ok.... So in the last couple of months I broke up with a long term gf of a bit over 5 years. Since this I have completed a bit of research into wat women want and how we as guys can attract them. I m not saying I m a guru or anything along those lines but I would like to share stories of my events and I hope u will 2.

Please post ur opinions...

Just 2 start... Wat is the difference between sum 1 who can talk 2 girls and sum1 who can't... Confidence!

Every1s worst fear is rejection! But we deal with rejection in everyday life. I believe that if u experience it enough eventually that fear will dissipate.

My dad has told me many life time quotes which I will share... He said 2 me "son, every hole u don't play is a hole u miss"

I need help attracting women and am keen to hear your wisdom

Well brad this thread is partially ur fault... After talking the other day 2 u I decided I should document my stories!

As much as we like to think people don't judge u by the way u look, we r totally wrong!

First impressions make the world of difference. If I can giv any advice:
go 2 the gym
buy stylish fashionable clothes
get some sun
get ur teeth whitened
spend a bit of cash on a decent hair cut
wear expensive cologne

azza2906 wrote:Just 2 start... Wat is the difference between sum 1 who can talk 2 girls and sum1 who can't... Confidence!

Actually I completely agree with this one.

I spent a big majority of High school single and this was mostly due to lack of confidence.
The moment I was in a relationship, I no longer over thought conversation with women or overly tried to impress them.

Instead of was easily approachable and talkative.

Women responded very well (my missus might say too well)

You say 'spend money on a decent hair cut', does this mean you died your hair? Because ranga is rangano matter how you cut it


Anyway, please impart your wisdom on me.

Every1s favourite story is themselves...

Don't do it! Wenever u talk to girls, never ever talk about urself. Make her work for it. She doesn't want 2 hear sum random loser talk about himself... But she does want to talk about herself: so let her!
Ask questions without interrogating, make them funny and laugh at watever she says. Wait 4 her 2 ask u, never go first cause suddenly u r an ego minded dickhead who wants to talk about himself. Even if it comes to u spin it around 2 her again. Keep her talking and u will win her trust!

capnwpac wrote:You say 'spend money on a decent hair cut', does this mean you died your hair? Because ranga is rangano matter how you cut it


Anyway, please impart your wisdom on me.

lol even tho my hair is a little red... I can still pull women mate. Actually I kno a few ranga mates who do very well with women. There r not many good looking stylish rangas around, so as long as u can look the part people want to kno u cause u r different from the average Joe

False time constraints

use this little secret 2 ur advantage! If u ever approach or tune a girl always giv her a false time constraint... Make her want more!

As soon as u start talking to a girl, there natural reaction is oh fuck great how r we going to get rid of this stalkerish loser and u will hav them on edge.
Tell them u can't stay long as u r going to meet back with ur friends or going out or hav an appointment or sum shit so it makes them feel like u r going anyway.

Suddenly, ur no longer a stalker and u r accepted

Oh right I remember now.
Like entering a two girl chat from one side.

Good tips mate

That's exactly right! Which brings me to my next point

Body Language

if u can look like u r having fun, ppl will think u r a fun guy and they will want 2 kno u. If u walk around with a frown face no1 is going to want a bar of u cause they just want to b happy. So bottom line is
smile all the time! Even if u r not having fun!
Smiling and laughing=fun and people want to kno u cause u must b fun
also posture is a big deal... U need to stand tall and proud not hunched in the foetal position

So wat I explained to brad is that if their was 2 girls at the bar u would
definately never approach in the middle of them. If u do suddenly u hav made a triangle
baracading the girls against the bar leaving them fearful cause they wouldn't b able to run if they wanted to. Suddenly u r pressuring them and it will b awkward.

Wat u want to do instead is approach on the outside of the girl u want to talk to and strike up a conversation over ur shoulder making it look like u could leave at any time (even if u don't)
u then further this by giving another false time constraint. Suddenly ur in and ur not seen as a weirdo.

A fun trick to play in this scenario is to ask if u can sho 1 of the girls a trick. Tell them to hold ur hands then stand up from there stool. Ask them to spin 180 degrees then sit in her seat and tell her she wanted to see a trick and she was tricked. Make sure u laugh and smile, then giv a false time constraint and let her kno she can hav her seat back shortly as u hav got to go sumwhere. Suddenly u r in and all attention is on u!

Aaron please share some stories of this fascinating "theory" put in to "practice". Brad and I had the absolute pleasure of witnessing one such event on Sunday.

Lol seems you have put some DEEP thought into this....
What the hell is a Ranga?

Agree with the gym...
Girls like a guy who looks after himself... Well depending what type of girl your after that is lol...
Also when you feel good about your self, you feel more confident about things... (Dont be over-confident though and think you can pull any chick left right centre lol)
Dress to impress

a ranga is a person with orange/red hair.. like Julia Gillard

Isis_au wrote:Aaron please share some stories of this fascinating "theory" put in to "practice". Brad and I had the absolute pleasure of witnessing one such event on Sunday.

soon bec... Just go thru the basic techniques first.

Peacocking

this idea comes from nature. Wen a male peacock tries to attract a female to mate, he spreads his feathers and generally the better looking peacock wins; the 1 that stands out from the rest.

So... wen u go out try and wear sumthing that seperates u from the herd. This could b anything from funky shoes, jewelery, a funny hat, tie, blazer, funky shirt, belt buckle etc.
U just want to look apart!

The Point Value Theory

So this works on the idea that every1 has a point value as soon as u walk into a club, pub, party etc. U want to try and hav the highest point value possible... Then girls want to kno u.

Lowest point value=sitting in a pub by urself. No1 is ever going to talk 2 u and u won't b able to talk 2 any1 else

Next step up=being there with a mate (wing). U r still just those seedy guys but at least u hav each other

being there with a chick=suddenly ur not a threat cause people assume either ur together or ur not out 2 pick up

being in a group of 3 or more=great point value cause u r in a group and if u r having fun people will want to join in and kno u and the group. Easier to keep a convo and it's less stress cause it's easier to walk away from a group.

Highest point value=occurs wen the group u r with, sum1 knows a link into another group and suddenly u hav an access point. It's not seen as weird cause suddenly u r all mates

Point value further

So every1 knows the basic principle of point value. The idea of point value is that u want 2 go 4 girls with a lower point value then u... Easier targets 

u then want to complete wat is called a neg. It is pretty much just laughing at her directly (in a cute sort of way) to bring her down and make her feel like she needs u to boost her value.
It is basically just ripping her off. I simple example would b 2 say that she has hair like my dogs... Wait 4 a reaction and if she pulls a funny face or fires up insist on telling her that u love ur dog. Another example is to get her to take a photo of u and ur mate. Wen u giv her the camera make a smart ass comment such as, u do kno how 2 use a camera right?

A good idea is 2 always carry a couple of photos on ur camera of u with other hot girls. These photos could just b with mates etc but wen u ask 2 see the photo she just took, flick back a few more to sho u with other attractive girls etc. This makes u seem like u r a wanted target and that she should get 2 kno u

What abour Jersey Shore styles...

if all else fails... Be the mate that takes the grenade LOL....

i once spat in a girls eye and said: "did you like that, because that's what is going to happen to you later" she then slapped me...

^ This man is my hero.

Ummm yeah... Prob don't do wat lj said unless u wanna get slapped.

The 5 question game

watch and learn
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0aWoN8MvGKw&feature=youtube_gdata